"There are thousands of fashion blogs that blog about the exact same thing as you. What makes your blog different and better!?"
I was talking to this guy I didn't know at a party and my blog came up in the conversation. He asked me: 'There are so many fashion blogs who blog about the exact same thing as you, what makes you different, what makes you special, what makes you better then the others'. This question really got me thinking. I was analysing myself and my blog to answer those questions. I came to the realization that I'm not different, more unique or better then other fashion blogs. But then, what's wrong with that!? Why always the pressure to be better, to be unique, to be different. I think this pressure is common to a lot of other bloggers. The need to distinct yourself from others. To be special, to be original so you will get known.. But then if you try so hard to stand out, to be different you will lose track of yourself. It's impossible to be yourself any more if you're gonna focus on the need to be different.. And in the end.. being yourself that's all that matters about a blog in my eyes. After doubting myself and thinking of strategies to become the best and most original blogger of them all I decided that I'm good enough how I am at this moment! I'm just me, Eline -> herPhoenix and I'm gonna stay that way. And if that means that I'm not the most special blogger out there, then I'm fine with that.